diff --git a/relay.yaml.example b/relay.yaml.example
index fdcfb09..22195d6 100644
--- a/relay.yaml.example
+++ b/relay.yaml.example
@@ -13,4 +13,4 @@ note: "Make a note about your instance here."
 ap:
   # this is used for generating activitypub messages, as well as instructions for
   # linking AP identities.  it should be an SSL-enabled domain reachable by https.
-  host: 'relay.kitsunet.net'
+  host: 'relay.example.com'